Well I got home to a pile of pans, assorted foods, silverware, some bowls & glasses, etc. etc. my mom is gifting me I think about 2/3 of her kitchen lol - I love my parents, they too are excited about this move, and folks keep asking me “Are You Excited!!!???” the answer, I am patiently waiting. (Yes!)
So many crossroads in life, I think we rush into things, we don’t take that bit to stop, park the car and just go “WOW” we really do breeze by in hopes that the quick drive will get us to bigger and better things quicker, that somehow we control the overall pace of our lives - but as I found in this video [linkage] via TED (which I found on one my RSS feeds today) slowness is good - so I am trying to enjoy this experience, one day at a time, as I have been making an effort to for years now.
I have done the house thing before, heck had me a 3 bedroom 1 bath, for a year or two, then picked up a roommate (lil sis) then folks all moved back in, and some things changed, some things didn’t, but this past few years living at home with parents has been pretty nice, maybe not what every 20 something thinks to themselves in the morning “I can’t wait to see if Dad’s hogging the shower this morning….” but as my father noted to me in a discussion the other morning before I applied for the apartment, he said:
You’ve always watched out for us, but one way or another, God can take care of us, and you’ll continue to as well.
I of course cut out the stories he shared - but the jist of it, I guess I have been a help, and I guess that’s what God has been trying to show me these past few days as things started to line up with putting in the app, more and more people have offered to help move, offered supplies, furniture, time, etc. to help me get all moved in and sorted. I had honestly thought that I’d simply move lots of small things over in my car, then get Dan to help with the big stuff (aka he has a truck) - but more and more folks are offering me, at times the shirt off their back - and that’s just amazing to me.
So I am enjoying this journey once again into independence - asking questions on getting things taken care of, having great friends offering help without even having to ask, just being heaped on, that’s a blessing and a half - but as the video above notes, get in touch with your inner turtle, slow down. Enjoy moments like this in your own life, cherish and look forward to slowing down at the end of the day to just not think - and look around and say “WOW”
I could close with my ever classic “anywhoo” but I will say this to each of you out there who have offered help, prayers, time, advice, even just the simple “How is it going?” - thanks. I truly appreciate the outpouring over something as simple to most folks as an apartment, but to me a big step forward, and the good old fashioned “Change” so I look forward to seeing what this change brings. I’ll post more on the apartment when I hear it, but as I told my Dad and Dan, if I get it Praise the Lord if I don’t… Praise the Lord.
God is Good.